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Yes, it is bad form to pester someone who is not replying to comments. On the other hand, it is perfectly acceptable to contact someone as in the scenario in your third paragraph.
Regardless of the situation in this specific example, it seems problematic that the local moderator team (and the whole community) was bypassed. I thought part of the idea behind all the negotiations prior to the move was that this sort of actions were to be explicitly avoided.
