Certainly not all of them, but at least some of the questions you're asking can be answered using SEDE. (I will admit, the you probably do not find here answers to the questions which are most interesting to you; such as why people join or leave; when MO posts lead to published results, etc.)
SEDE was already mentioned in François G. Dorais' answer - let me add at least some queries corresponding to some of the questions you asked.
How many questions get asked?
Many queries concerning number of question and answers can be found here: Does the number of answers really drop over years?
It would not make much sense to repeat all of them here - so I will just include a graph showing the number of questions/answers/posts per month.
This only includes the posts that haven't been deleted - if you want to see stats with deleted posts, you can find such queries in the linked post.
Definition of answered question
One could take various definitions of when the question is considered answered. Does it have at least one answer? Does it have an accepted answer? Does it have at least one answer with a positive score? (You probably know that for the purposes of various lists of unanswered questions, Stack Exchange uses the definition that a question is answered if it has an accepted answer or an upvoted answer.)
For the simplicity, I will count the questions where at least one answer was posted and the question which have an accepted answer.
You can find some stats about answers also here: Does the number of answers really drop over years?
How many get answered?
We can look at the number (and at the percentage) of questions which got at least one answer. Naturally, it is expected that older questions should have a bit higher percentage - since there was a longer time for potential answerers to think about the problem and post an answer.
To clarify, I will explicitly mention that the query is looking only at the question posted in the given month. (For example, in December 2023 we see the value around 50%. That means that half of the questions posted in December 2023 already had at least one answer when the query was run. So this is not saying that only half of all questions had an answer at the time.)
This is how the graph with the percentage looks at the moment:
If we exclude closed questions from our stats, the graphs do not look very differently: numbers and percentages.
How fast they get answered?
If you look at the time until the first answer, the majority of questions gets an answer on the same day as the question is posted and the majority of answers is posted on the same day as the question.
In connection with this, one might be interested to see questions the longest and the shortest time until the first answer.
For the shortest time, it make sense to exclude the answers posted simultaneously with the question (and the answers which are older than the question - such answers are probably consequence of merging two questions). Or look at the first answer posted by somebody else than the asker.
Feel free to ask if you think some other SEDE queries might be interesting for you - either in comments or in chat. (For example, it is some work - but it is not terribly difficult to create similar queries which look at the same stats per year rather than per month.)
Chat is probably better - it is more suitable for longer exchanges, with an explanation what can and cannot be done in SEDE.
A good place might be one of the SEDE chatrooms - here and here.
Or, if you prefer, you can ask me directly in my chatroom.
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). It is interesting enough for getting a rough idea of traffic volumes, patterns, and sources, but it's also relatively limited as a tool. $\endgroup$